“The Magic of Appreciation”…and 5 Ways to Show It.
There’s no other feeling in the world like the feeling of being appreciated. Even for the mundane “everyday things” in life. Even for the things we’re “supposed to do”. When we feel appreciated we naturally want to do more — give more.
Being the “giving” energy partner in the relationship, men really thrive upon our appreciation. The more we appreciate them, the more they instinctively want to give. It’s in their nature to give to us.
And yet, so often we withhold our appreciation. Why do we do this?
Do we fall into a way of expectation or complacency?
Do we fear somehow that lavishing too much praise will make us weak and vulnerable?
Do we fail to see what we ought to appreciate because we are too focused on what we DON’T have, rather than what we should be thankful for?
Are we too busy criticizing him to appreciate him?
“I’m not having any luck at all with any of these online dating sites. I give up! All the good men are either taken or gay. All the men I find on these sites are players, jerks, or just defective in some way.”
Sound familiar? Believe me, I understand. I’ve been there too. But the truth is, there are hundreds, if not thousands of wonderful men out there waiting to meet a woman just like you that they can fall in love with.
Believe it or not, most men actually WANT to be married.
Who is Mr. Wonderful looking for? He wants to find the woman who makes him feel totally accepted for who he is, not who she can change him to be. He wants to feel appreciated by his woman. And he wants to fall in love with a feminine energy woman who really loves herself (like the goddess that she is) and knows how to express herself.
Thankfully, I discovered the elements and tools that can make anyone succeed at finding love...