You could truly be the sexiest, classiest, smartest, most sophisticated, most adventurous, most awesome, sports-loving goddess in the whole wide world, but if your boyfriend isn’t really stepping up to claim you and it doesn’t feel like the relationship is moving forward, then the problem could very well be that he doesn’t believe he has any competition to worry about.
I see it happen all the time.
Here’s a simple “truth” about your man that he will never admit to you:
If he believes that men are falling all over themselves trying to be with you, he will instinctively step up to “win you” for himself.
However, if he believes he’s already won you, he might not feel much of an urgency to commit.
This is why it’s SO important to “up”your perceived value.